What we learned last night

• If you hear thunder, do not stall in putting your children to sleep. If it is anywhere near 6 p.m. or later, and you hear a distant rumble, fast forward and instigate the nighttime routine immediately. Do not hesitate. Do not pass go. Do not stop to collect your $200.

• In the unfortunate event that you attempt the nighttime rituals amidst a thunderstorm, press on as if nothing is happening. Ignore it completely. If your children ask, "what was that noise?", respond, "What noise?" If they ask, "what is that flashing light?", respond, "I didn't see anything. Go brush your teeth."

• In the horrific, nightmarish occurrence that a particularly violent lightening bolt strikes the transformer at the back of your property line, causing your house to lose power at the exact moment that you are laying your two-year old into his crib, DO NOT ABORT! Again, continue putting him to bed. Soothe his screams if you must, but DO NOT GET HIM OUT OF HIS CRIB! And with respect to the four-year old in the house, immediately give him a flashlight, tell him he gets to "camp out," and leave his room. DO NOT wait 3 hours to attempt this tactic -- you will only have wasted invaluable time that you will never get back.

• Never wait until "later" to make dinner for you and your husband if you own an electric stove. "Later" might not come. You never know when you'll have to go to bed hungry, having attempted to satiate your hunger with dried cereal while cowering in the back of your pantry, away from your children, so they don't see you eating and attempt to score themselves a "snack" notwithstanding their failure to finish the avocado and blueberry portion of their dinners.

• Don't bother trying to read your children books by flashlight. They'll be way more interested in the flashlight than the books.

• Coleman laterns are AWESOME! Sure, we've yet to make that camping trip we fantasized about when we bought it, but it sure did come in handy last night. Other items that, after last night, we will never live without: 1) a Thomas the Tank Engine computer; 2) a Leapster (with Thomas and Lightening McQueen games); 3) sweetie's Blackberry; and 4) Dr. Seuss books (which were enjoyed once we turned off the flashlight). Items that we will be disposing of immediately: 1) our microwave, stove and alarm system, and any other appliance that causes itself to beep incessantly either immediately upon return of power or within the ensuing FIVE HOURS, regardless of the fact that it is 11 p.m., 2 a.m. or 4 a.m.; 2) my Kathy Smith Intermediate Yoga DVD -- what was I thinking?? (Sure I learned that this morning and not last night, but I wanted to share it anyway...

• Finally, the biggest lesson of last night: Never, ever, ever let a two-year old (or at least our two-year old) sleep in your bed with you and your spouse. Ever. Even if it's a king-size bed that you recently purchased for just such an event. No bed is big enough for Luke.
  

Life in Charlotte

Wachovia is Charlotte's 2nd largest employer, and it just announced that it lost $8.9 BILLION in the second quarter. Now, it's going to cut more than 10,000 jobs. Here's the article, for those you who may have nothing better to do.

Charlotte's growth in the recent years is due primarily, if not solely, to the banking industry. Thankfully, BofA seems to be fairing better. And although it's bigger than Wachovia, Wachovia employs more people here than BofA does. We know several people who lost their bank jobs in the round of cuts last year, and most of them haven't found new jobs yet. These are people with mortgages and young families. There just don't seem to be any jobs to be had, and now more people are going to be out there looking.

But still, our President tells us to be optimistic. "The market is working!"

This Onion article came to us courtesy of Matt Robertson at CWT. We're trying to figure out if it was really published in 2001. It it was, it's crazy scary. It starts:

Mere days from assuming the presidency and closing the door on eight years of Bill Clinton, president-elect George W. Bush assured the nation in a televised address Tuesday that "our long national nightmare of peace and prosperity is finally over."

Among its more poignant passages:

Bush also promised to bring an end to the severe war drought that plagued the nation under Clinton, assuring citizens that the U.S. will engage in at least one Gulf War-level armed conflict in the next four years.

"You better believe we're going to mix it up with somebody at some point during my administration," said Bush, who plans a 250 percent boost in military spending. "Unlike my predecessor, I am fully committed to putting soldiers in battle situations. Otherwise, what is the point of even having a military?" . . .

On the economic side, Bush vowed to bring back economic stagnation by implementing substantial tax cuts, which would lead to a recession, which would necessitate a tax hike, which would lead to a drop in consumer spending, which would lead to layoffs, which would deepen the recession even further. . . .

Turning to the subject of the environment, Bush said he will do whatever it takes to undo the tremendous damage not done by the Clinton Administration to the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge. He assured citizens that he will follow through on his campaign promise to open the 1.5 million acre refuge's coastal plain to oil drilling.

We're off and running!

So, as most of you know, the Sweetie and I have always wanted a fairly big family. But after a LONG time (relative to our past experiences, anyway) of trying for #3, we've come to realize that maybe that's not what the fates have intended for us. It seems we're supposed to be a blissfully happy family of 4, instead of 5 (at least for the time being -- ya never know what the future may hold...).

So I am hereby announcing that the husband and I are embarking on a different kind of journey -- we're gonna run a half-marathon! We've been "thinking" about this for a long time, and we have lots of friends who have traveled this road before us (go Jeff!!). So we've bought a training guide, got the equipment and we're getting started! (Please note -- any of you from Cadwalader who may happen upon this post: please frequently ask Matt, "How's the training going for the run?" And keep asking him until you shame him into actually doing it. I would really appreciate it.)

And one final note: tonight at dinner Noah announced that his "butt steamed." We don't know what this means. We think he farted. Insights anyone?

"New " Bloggers, and other items of interest

Please direct your attention to the "Other Blogs of Interest." I've added two. The first is "Going Green Girl," which is my sister-in-law, Kerri. She has the done the things with her blog that I would like to do, but get too distracted to focus on -- lots of great information about gardening and environmental issues, but without the preachiness that some people have noted about my blog. I adore my sister-in-law.

And then we have the musings of Jeff Shalom, at "Three Things You Should Know." Wonderfully themed/organized blog (not that there's anything wrong with the seemingly random topic changes you'll find on my blog). Very entertaining reading, especially for the parents in the audience.

And in other news, here's an amusing anecdote from my darling niece, Kaia. I am in love with my nieces more than words can describe, and not just because they're my nieces. They have the most fabulous personalities, and they do the funniest things. Case in point: I was visiting H'ville this week, and Kerri and I took all the kids to the WNC Nature Center. I volunteered to escort Kaia to the potty for a number 2. She's 5, so she can essentially handle these things herself, but she just needs some occasional supervision. She goes into the stall and asks my to shut the door behind her. So I stand outside and wait for her. And then I hear this coming from the stall: "[Grunt. Bigger Grunt.] Oh yeah, that's it. Come on, come on. Oh yeah, oh yeah. Almost... almost... [Big Sigh.] Oooooh, nice." Little girls, and all that sugar and spice.

The TVs are all broken

Or at least this is what we've told the boys. We started this about two months ago, and we were initially very successful. In fact, on our first attempt, we went nine days without the TV on in the house at all. Impressive, huh? But then, one rainy day, we figured, "Hey, we're in the clear. The boys no longer NEED to watch TV, so we can let the boys watch one show, right?" The next day, it was two shows. And then it was a movie, then it was two movies, and voila, back to pure addiction. Then they were "broken" again for a while, and then I got sick and needed the kind of assistance that only Diego and the Backyardigans could provide. So, magically, the TV was fixed. Then, after a couple of days we broke it again. And the cycle continued. (An experience that interestingly paralleled our attempts to quit smoking.) Until last week, when I was exhausted and overwhelmed by my to-do lists to prepare for our visitors, I launched a full-fledged Nick, Jr. marathon. We (because by Thursday, Matt was a willing accomplice) continued that way through the weekend.

And now here we are on Monday morning, and the TVs are busted again (this time we got to blame it on the crazy storms that blew through last night). When the boys woke up this morning, suffice it to say that Noah was disappointed. But he's recovered and, 4 and half hours later, is contentedly playing trains.

When Luke woke up, we got his milk and he headed into the family room to assume his position on the couch. When he figured out that I wasn't going to be turning on the TV (with Noah saying, "I know Lukey, it's terrible. The TV is broken again."), he lost it. His feelings about this tragedy simply cannot be described with mere words. Blood-curdling screams come closer. A fit of pure rage is more like it. I attempted to distract him with a collaborative smoothie-making breakfast. Then we went to get haircuts. Then we went on a nature walk on the greenway, and then ran a couple of errands. But none of this really took him away from the subject of TV (the fact that the van has a dvd player, which was also "broken," didn't help). And then we had to come home. And as I type this, he is standing in front of the TV in the playroom, having gathered every remote in the house, and is desperately trying to make one of them reunite him with his beloved Diego.

Why does the TV also get broken on Monday mornings when daddy goes back to work?